Read it in a blog and I repeat it here!!
We talk about how blogging can be one activity in which you can vent out your pent up feelings without bothering how people are going to judge you...... but when it comes to facing the real situation of getting engaged/married, we start deleting the posts to cover the dark secrets of life.
We expect full honesty n faithfulness from our partners, but in deep corners of our own life - we still are running from the world.
Why people want to keep lying to themselves till it becomes too big to hide?
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Yes, Have seen people doing exactly the same.... Why do (some) people pretend to be someone else (or what the others around them, want them to be), talk and behave in a way which is not themselves.. What for??
Or even why do people ever grow up so much, that they do not understand themselves?
I happened to meet a person, who said, with every boy friend, she realizes what she is and has a clear view what she wants in life???!! (Yes, thats exactly what she told and I was horrified with such comments, wel!!!, I'm not grown up to even react!!!)
From where did all the complications in life ever crept up? People easily change their relationships, with friends, with partners and other people around them.. And consider it to be "OK"... {Its more like saying "Men may come n men may go, but I go on forever}... [Lucky, at least parents cannot be changed]
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9 replies!!:
Yes exactly...never understood why people complicate lives by trying to be someone...why cant you be YOU...why be SOMEONE???
and I see ppl behaving in a totally different way, with different ppl.. (no, I'm not saying, treating in a different way,, I myself can't treat some stranger just as I do to my friend)...
They fake different happiness, choice, preference, opinion!! what not!!
ooh!! why , why , why!!!
Well Indians are a Hypocritical they don't want to be seen as bad.. we are too much into what others will say and think and in the process we sometimes forget to live life .. we keep play acting for others
@CM of I - Thanks for your commment!!
If thats the case, when do we ever live!! Trying to impress others is such a waste of time!!
I don't even see any link between what ppl expect from others and what in turn, they can do !!!
honesty/integrity/loyalty/trust/love --- ooh, they are so beautiful,,,
if only we live up to what our heart says!!
CK, in the entire article, this statement impresses...
"Or even why do people ever grow up so much, that they do not understand themselves?"... nice.
Problems creep up when we start expecting more than what we can live up to, ourselves. Also, it's my opinion that we satisfy ourselves completely and justifiably before getting prepped to impress others [for what good, or bad]..
Expectations, is the [(unfortunately) necessary] evil here.. :) :(
Hey Aj, Thanks for your commments!!!
hmmm, changing for good is anyday good!! but it should be from the heart, than just pretension!!
n yeah, i agree with you,, expectation is the greatest evil (esp, if its from others)
what's life without some complications? ;)
exactly ...some is the WORD here!!
but y everything!! :(
simplicity is something which I adore, esp in basics!!
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